Elder abuse is a hidden crisis, an act, or failure to act, that causes harm or distress to an older adult within a relationship of trust. It can happen anywhere: at home, in care settings, in the community, or on-line. Often, it’s committed by someone close, a family member, caregiver, or trusted friend.
Types of Elder Abuse
Elder abuse takes many forms:
Physical abuse: hitting, pushing, or using physical force.
Emotional or psychological abuse: insults, threats, humiliation, or isolation.
Financial abuse: misusing money, property, or power of attorney.
Sexual abuse: non-consensual sexual contact, behaviour, or activity.
Spiritual abuse: Denying people freedom of belief or using faith to control, harm, or silence them.
Neglect: failing to provide food, care, medication, or companionship.
Each type is damaging, and many older adults experience more than one form of abuse at the same time.
Warning Signs and Red Flags
Recognizing the signs is key. Look for unexplained injuries, sudden withdrawal from social activities,changes in financial circumstances, missing possessions, or fearfulness around certain individuals. Socialisolation is a major risk factor, as abusers often isolate older adults from friends and family to maintaincontrol.
Myths vs. Facts
A common myth is that elder abuse is rare. In reality, it is one of the most underreported forms of violence, with many cases never reaching authorities. Another misconception is that only frail or dependent seniors are affected. The truth is that abuse can happen to healthy, independent older adults as well. What is always true is this: abuse is never the fault of the older adult.
Where to Get Help:
If you see the signs of elder abuse, whether physical, emotional, financial, sexual, spiritual or neglect, know that support is available.
- Call the BC Seniors Abuse and Information Line (SAIL) at 1-866-437-1940 for free, confidentialadvice.
- Talk to someone you trust: a doctor, faith leader, neighbour, friend, or community worker.
- Learn more warning signs through elder abuse awareness & support resources linked on NEVR’s website.
Awareness is the first step. If you suspect abuse, don’t wait. Reach out, listen, and take action.